Research Proposal on "Embarrasses or Shames"

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embarrasses or shames them to such an extent that they might be reluctant to seek professional assistance, has probably looked into some kind of self-help reading. Not all of this reading is found in self-help books. In fact, self-help is such a popular topic, that I went to my bathroom magazine rack and pulled out five different magazines with self-help articles. Some of them targeted fixing certain behaviors, but others, like Oprah magazine, made bold promises about changing one's life after taking a 28-question quiz. It made me realize that, as a society, we are really enamored with the idea of the quick-fix. It also made me a little bit angry. The fact that these magazines, all of them targeted towards women, featured articles promising to help people fix their lives, made me realize that people are really struggling with issues and not seeking the appropriate help. Does the proliferation of all of these self-help books compound the problem, or does it provide some relief for some of the people experiencing turmoil? I realize that is a question that may not be answerable, but it is a question that is worth asking. Moreover, does this proliferation of self-help keep people from seeking professional assistance?

I think that it is likely that these self-help books do keep some people from seeking assistance, and, that by prolonging people's contact with mental health professionals, almost certainly exacerbate problems for some people. However, I think that even ineffective self-help books may provide people with a catalyst to seek out professional help. After all, reading a self-help book means that a person is at least acknowledging that an issue needs to be addressed. They may not be at the point of acknowledging that they need professional help to address the issue, and not all issues require that level of intervention, but they are at least no longer in denial about the fact that there is an issue.

Personally, I have found two self-help type books to be extremely helpful, but the reasons that I found these books helpful varied with the book. The first of these books was given to me by a family friend when I was a teenager struggling to cope with the alcoholism and substance abuse issues that plagued my family. The book was called Al-Anon Faces Alcoholism and discussed the Al-Anon approach to dealing with alcoholism. While I appreciate that Al-Anon is a support group for people who choose to remain in relationships with alcoholics, even as a teenager, I found its approach demeaning. The book seemed to advocate playing a victim's role, though it used empowering language to do so. I rejected the message of the book, determined that I would not develop the same substance abuse problems as some of my family members and that I would never tolerate addictive behavior in the family I created once grown. That rejection of the message in that book has served me well, as I have avoided drug and alcohol abuse and have never been involved in a romantic relationship or a close friendship with an addict.

The second book that I found helpful was a book written by Joel Osteen, a televangelist based out of Houston, Texas. There is a lot of criticism, much of it justified, about Osteen and his ministry. Both the ultra-religious and non-religious critics of his suggest that Osteen is twisting the Bible's message to imply that Christianity and financial security are intertwined, which gives his followers false hope. Reading Osteen's book, I found those criticisms to be rather hollow. While Osteen's treatment of scripture varied from the normal treatment of scripture, it was no more carefully selected to convey his message than the religious messages of most churches. Moreover, I found his advice helpful. I did not become a millionaire, but I found his advice to remain positive and be certain that I could persevere to be uplifting and inspiring. Sometimes, life just seems overwhelming, and a book that conveys the message that a person is never truly alone helps alleviate some of the dread that comes with a feeling of being so overwhelmed. As a result, I have to consider his book helpful, even if I have not yet achieved the financial success the book seemed to promise.

Chapter Two

I love candy, which probably comes as no surprise, since most people love candy. Furthermore, when choosing a non-chocolate candy, I frequently turn to Starburst. I absolutely love the way that they taste. However, as much as I love candy, in general, and Starburst in particular, I actually get physically ill at the thought of Starburst twizzlers. Even contemplating eating them leaves me queasy. What is even more unique is that this did not occur until late in my life. As a young adult, I had Starburst twizzlers just before experiencing a horrible bout of food poisoning. Though the twizzlers are not what made me ill, they were the last food that I consumed prior to becoming ill, and just thinking of them brings on the same nausea I experienced with that illness. Interestingly enough, the other strong example of classical conditioning that I have noticed in everyday life also involves a nausea response to an innocuous food. A relative had cancer and had to undergo chemotherapy. While he was being treated, the hospital served him Jell-o with virtually every meal. He has been cancer-free for well over a decade, but he still cannot stand the sight of Jell-o.

Even more interesting to me than the impact of operant conditioning on my own interpersonal relationships is the impact that operant conditioning has had on a child in my life. One of my friends has a young son who is autistic. He is non-verbal, though not considered severe or profound. For example, he is non-violent, but he does engage in a wide repertoire of self-soothing stemming behaviors, and interfering with his performance of those behaviors can result in him causing self-harm and occasionally physically lashing out at others. This child has recently begun getting ABA therapy, and an in-home trainer comes to work with his mother to teach her how to work with her son.

I am struck by how much his ABA therapy relies on the basic principles of operant conditioning. There is no punishment involved in his training. While some people may feel that punishment is appropriate for an autistic child, his in-home trainer feels that applying aversive stimuli to a person who is already over-stimulated is not conducive to learning. However, the rest of his therapy relies heavily on positive reinforcement, rewards, and negative reinforcement. For example, at five, this child is far away from being toilet-trained, and, since toilet-training is a particularly difficult issue for many autistic children, my friend has been told to expect that he may be in his teens before mastering that skill. Prior to the in-home trainer, my friend had never had success attempting to get him to use the bathroom on the potty. However, the trainer showed her how to implement a chocolate reward system for when we sat on the potty and tried to go. Now, he will sit on the potty and attempt to get his reward.

In addition, his mother and his trainer have used operant conditioning to help make him somewhat verbal. His favorite food is popcorn, and he used to simply point at it and his mother would supply it for him. Then, the trainer said not to give any to him unless he vocalized. Once grunting or making some other noise was established as a popcorn request, the trainer told her not to give it to him unless he made a "popcorn"-like sound. Then, he was to be rewarded with one piece of popcorn. Now, he must say the word "popcorn," and each utterance earns him exactly one piece of popcorn. If he begins to tantrum, which is common because he gets very frustrated during his training, then my friend has been instructed to remove the popcorn and not let him have any more of it that day. This has been an incredibly effective technique and has increased his vocabulary from one word, "Wonderpets," to 10-15 words, depending on the day. While a 10-15-word vocabulary may seem insignificant, for a child who was non-verbal for almost five years, it is an incredible achievement, and it is all due to operant conditioning.

Chapter Three: Stress and Effects

If there is one topic in psychology that people should be required to study, that topic is stress and how it can impact one's life. Of course, while people can do things to eliminate some stress from their lives, there is no way to have a completely stress-free life, short of becoming a hermit. Even then, without companionship, people would probably find themselves tremendously stressed. Therefore, it is important to understand stress, what causes stress, and how stress can impact one's life. That way, if one is facing a particularly stressful time period,… READ MORE

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